A sexy toy can be a great way to explore intimate feelings with your partner, even if you’re both shy about talking about them. Plus, you can have fun playing together!
Before you shop for sex toys make sure you know what types of stimulation it offers. Find a vibration that suits you.
Clitoris Sucking Toys
These clit suckers will take you to a new world of pleasure at your clitoris. These toys look like a vibrator but they actually suck on the clitoral area instead of vibrating directly. This is said to produce a sensation of oral sex, and increase blood circulation for an explosive orgasm.

The toy is made of a smooth piece body-safe silicone that has an indentation on the base to fit around your clit. You can use it solo or with a partner for clitoral stroking, rubbing and sucking. Some models like this one from Womanizer even have a setting for penetrative or G-spot stimulation for double the fun.
Just be sure to use a toy-compatible lubricant, and always start at the lowest intensity settings. You can also experiment by adjusting the distance between the nozzle and your clit, and with different suction patterns. Some clit suction toy brands have larger mouths designed for bigger clits, while others have narrower holes for a more pinpoint effect. Some are available in a variety sexy color options and can even be used to add a sensual experience in the shower or bathtub.
Dildos
Dildos were designed for internal stimulation, but can also be used externally. To do this, you can attach a vibrating cock ring to the base of your dildo for extra attention.
Dildos can be made from a variety of materials, including silicone, glass, metal, and stone (some of them are even studded with beads or bees). SELF suggests that you stick to dildos made of materials that are safe for the body when shopping.
When you’re getting a new dildo, Sloane suggests letting it warm up in some water before wearing it. This will help you get used the weight and temperature of the dildo, as well how it feels against your body. You can also benefit from trying a few basic positions before using it on your partner. This way, you can see if you like how it feels with different thrusts and rocks.
Vibrating Rings
If you want a vibrator that stimulates more than the clitoris alone, cock rings can be a great choice. These sexy toys are made from silicone rings that are stretchy and safe for the body. They fit around the base of your penis and have a motorized ball attached to the top. Some versions have a protruding circle to tickle your vulva or clitoris (or masturbate while playing with a partner) and others have two removable bullets to stimulate both the testicles and clitoris.
Some women who struggle to achieve an orgasm during vaginal intercourse find that a vibrating ring helps. The clitoral stimulation can also help boost natural lubrication for increased comfort during penetration, and it can add new sensations to sexual encounters. For couples, a textured, ribbed ring can be worn on the penis to provide stimulation for both partners at the same time. Tenga is an erogenous ring that has multiple attachments. It can be used with handheld vibrators for other erogenous regions, such as the frenulum and nipples.